Hi Friends!

This Is Me: The Heart Behind the Break Free Project

This is the face that used to smile awkwardly.

The one that had a guard up 100% of the time.

The one that protected her heart because, for so long, it had been hurt.

I wasn’t always the friendly girl.

In fact, I wasn’t much of a girl’s girl at all.

High school? It was tough.

Friendships? Even tougher.

So I built walls. Big ones.

And if you met me back then, chances are…

You didn’t like me.

Or thought I didn’t like you.

But here’s the truth:

That was all a trauma response.

Who I Am Now

Today, I’m a professional friend maker.

Seriously. I thrive on connection.

From networking events to the park with my kids, from volunteering to coffee chats—I live for meaningful moments and new friendships.

But don’t get it twisted.

I still protect my peace.

I’ve learned to keep a guard—not out of fear, but out of wisdom.

I know who’s truly for me…

And I also know who has smiled to my face while talking behind my back.

And I still pray for you. 🙏🏼

So, hi to all my new friends 👋

Here’s a little about the very extra, very human me:

I love Mexican food 🌮
I collect shoes and hats like it’s a sport
I love staying in with a rom-com, and traveling solo to places that feel like Hallmark movies
Florida will be home someday
I love to fly, to lift weights, and go on very slow jogs 🏋🏼‍♀️
I hate shopping, but I love cute clothes
I’m a mom of 3 girls—with BIG age gaps
I’m also an aunt to 5 wild little boys
I don’t care much for alcohol and could easily live without it
I didn’t start really traveling until I was 35
I love to laugh (sometimes at the wrong moments) and talk too loud
I say things I shouldn’t and apologize often
I’m fiercely loyal and expect that in return
My mama bear claws? Sharp. Like really sharp
I used to overthink, act out of emotion, try to fix everything, and please everyone
Not anymore